The Saying Goodbye Services are the first international set of remembrance services for people who have lost a child at any stage of pregnancy, at birth or in infancy, whether the loss be recent or 80 years ago. In addition, anyone who has been through fertility treatment or who has never been able to have children for whatever reason, is most welcome.
Since 2012, over 170 services have been held across the UK, North America and France, allowing tens of thousands of people to remember the babies they have lost. The services are completely free to attend, do not need tickets or any advance bookings, and are open to anyone of any faith or no faith. They have been strategically located, to make them accessible to as many people as possible, and services take place within 60-90 minutes of the majority of the UK population.
The Mariposa Trust is a non-religious charity, but has seen the importance of the Saying Goodbye services taking place in magnificent Cathedrals, Minsters and Abbey’s. These venues are used for the most important events of state, from coronations and weddings to important civic events, and services of remembrance should take no less a place within society. The services follow an Anglican format, and include secular music, poetry, acts of remembrance and other elements.
Who Can Attend the Services?
The services are for women and men who have suffered the loss of a baby, as well as for their children and their extended family and friends, whether the loss be recent or historic. In addition, anyone who has been through fertility treatment or who has never been able to have children for whatever reason, is most welcome.
It should also be noted that all are welcome regardless of the type or circumstances of loss they have experienced. Whether you have been through early or late miscarriage, missed miscarriage, an ectopic or molar pregnancy, stillbirth, neonatal or early infant loss or any other type of baby or child loss, all are welcome.
If you need to say goodbye to a baby or to grieve, or you want to come along with a friend who needs to say goodbye, you are welcome at any of the services.
Why Should I Attend the Services?
Loss at any stage is traumatic. Early loss is often not acknowledged or discussed, with commemorative services seldom taking place. Services for babies who are stillborn or lost in early years, are usually conducted while parents are in a fog of grief and pain.
The services will give you the opportunity to stand with other people ‘who know’ the pain of losing a child, and offer you a time to publicly acknowledge and remember children who have been lost.
Where possible we will update our listings to notify of cancelled, postponed and rescheduled events, however we STRONGLY ADVISE that you check with the venue/organiser in the first instance for updates.
All information (whether in text or photographs) is supplied in good faith but should not be relied upon as being a statement of representation or fact.GOT AN EVENT TO SHARE? It's free to post your events on What's On Glasgow, click here to find out more!
Want to be the first to hear about what's happening in Glasgow? Just hit 'Like' on our Facebook page, join the What's On Scotland Facebook Group and 'Follow' on our Twitter account and you're all set!Get into the holiday spirit with beautiful carols and heartwarming performances at the CrossReach Christmas Carol Concert being held in the magical surroundings of Glasgow Cathedral on December 5th!
READ MOREEnjoy an exceptional musical evening in the lead-up to Christmas in the spectacular candlelit setting of Glasgow Cathedral on Thursday 19th December!
READ MOREGlasgow Bach Cantata Project is an exciting venture aimed at bringing the glory of J.S. Bach's cantatas to Glasgow, join them for Concert Number 15 on Sunday 23rd February!
READ MOREThe Bowel Cancer UK Awareness Roadshow is coming to locations across Glasgow over three days, to spread awareness of bowel cancer and its symptoms.
READ MOREFASS Glasgow invite you to join them for a heartfelt Ecumenical Service of Remembrance dedicated to honouring those lost to drugs and alcohol.
READ MOREJoin the My Shawlands team as they kick off the festive season with another fantastic, family-friendly event on Thursday 21st November!
READ MOREJoin Hillington Park Church for their annual Christmas Fayre on Saturday 23rd November where there will be 25 stalls selling a variety of goods to help kick start your Christmas shopping!
READ MORELet the Christmas magic begin with the official Milngavie Christmas Lights Switch On and Reindeer Parade being held in the town centre on Saturday 23rd November!
READ MOREThe festive celebrations will begin in Helensburgh with the annual Christmas Lights Switch On and Christmas Market, being held on Saturday 23rd November!
READ MOREThe Visit West End Christmas Lights Switch On is being held on Sunday 24th November with a Christmas Market and entertainment from midday and the big switch on taking place at 5.30pm!
READ MOREHopscotch Theatre Company and Glasgow Life present a fresh retelling of the classic tale Pinocchio where avatars and influencers pull the strings!
READ MOREJoin the My Shawlands team at Langside Square as they celebrate Christmas with plenty of festive fun for all the family, including an visit from Santa!
READ MORE